Inspirational Video | Encouragement

May 23, 2009 by Althea Tan  
Filed under Better Parenting, Inspiration, Videos

This video ad is based on a true story. A Facebook friend posted a link to this on his wall. This video shows that even the most embarrassing situations can be turned into something that will teach everybody a lesson.

Encouragement is one of the best gifts a parent can give to his or her child: it can be done anytime and it’s free.

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Do You Have a Close Relationship With Your Child? | Benefits of Attachment Parenting

April 13, 2009 by Althea Tan  
Filed under Better Parenting, Second Year

Daniel and I before our trip to Manila

Taken before our trip to Manila


In a nutshell, attachment parenting is responsive parenting. It is a parenting philosophy coined by esteemed pediatrician William Sears, MD. During childhood, a strong emotional bond is formed between parents and their kids so it is important to be able to assess and address the latter’s needs. The ability to be sensitive to the needs of a child yields a lot of benefits, not only to the child but also to the parent.

I got interested in attachment parenting when I was pregnant with Daniel. I learned that being attached to your baby develops in him the ability to receive and give love when he grows up. He becomes more trusting and more competent. He grows better because he feels better. At the same time, I become more confident as a parent, being able to intuitively make decisions in response to my child’s needs. Being able to read my baby’s cues helps me understand my baby’s temperament, which gives me ideas on how to discipline him.

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