Raising my 20-month-old son

So, after almost two months of living in the Bay Area, I can safely say that Daniel has already grown accustomed to his new environment. The adjustment was so quick that he didn’t even break a sweat over the sudden change of weather patterns and new faces that bourgeon in front of him. He’s more attached to me now: he clings into my pants or any fabric that he can clutch his tiny fingers into, whenever I attempt to slip on my heels or put on my rubber shoes. He knows when I’m going somewhere, maybe by the way I blithely toss my damp hair, or how I wear my purse in a certain way. And no amount of cajoling can soften his strong grasp. Most times, he rushes to hide between my legs or pretend to morph with them, whichever makes him more invisible. While that is the best thing since sliced bread, sometimes I feel guilty that I have to go somewhere without him. On the other hand, I delight in the fact that I am needed by my son. I admit I’ve never felt so needed like that before.

Daniel doesn’t miss his Yaya and while I am still trying to figure out whether “not missing” is a good thing or not, I also doubt if he even realizes losing his nanny in the first place. It seems that life goes on for Daniel and his days go by nary a word spoken about his trusty nanny. I guess I wouldn’t want my son to start crying profusely in the middle of the night and demanding to fly his Yaya to the Bay Area. So in this case, it makes sense to say that “not missing” is a good thing.

When we left Iloilo (God, the mere mention of the place makes me want to catch the next flight out of San Francisco) more than a month ago, Daniel brought with him basic words that he picked-up from his Yaya, the people around him (mostly our relatives), and from his deep personal attachment to food or anything that looks edible. One of the first words that he masterfully enunciates in different accents is apple. I didn’t know that apple, if repeated a thousand times over in one day at the rate of five repetitions per second, can be pleasing to ears especially if it is formed out of the lips of my dear son. [Click here to read more about this entry...]

Hello, Dad?

This was taken a couple of months ago when Daniel was still learning how to walk. The next thing I knew, he was on the phone and pretending to talk to someone.

How observant!

Sleeping Prince

There are times when I can’t help but take photos of Daniel while asleep. I love how wonderful this toddler is. I feel like squeezing him all the time!

The Happy Walker

Daniel will be 18-month-old soon and has grown into a smart and happy toddler and a happy walker. He has long abandoned his crib and now seldom uses his stroller to go places. He prefers walking and has expanded his playground to the lawn where he can enjoy the colorful flowers and lush greenery.

He also loves dancing, which makes him popular among relatives, neighbors, and even among my mother’s co-workers. He loves his Brainy Baby videos, which are extremely effective to soothe his tantrums.

Although Daniel likes watching his videos, he prefers being read to and likes to look and point at illustrations. He can identify photos of the following: banana, apple, Coke, bird, car, duck, chicken, ball, flower, tree, baby, mommy, and daddy. He also attentively listens to his favorite children stories.

Daniel started talking last month and has expanded his vocabulary by early June. He now uses words and actions to effectively communicate what he needs and wants. While some kids have mama or papa as their first words, Daniel first uttered the words banana (his favorite) and Coke.

I love being a mom and I’m happy to see my son’s progress every day. I can’t wait for him to have full mobility so he can just tag along with us wherever we go.

Inspirational Video | Encouragement

This video ad is based on a true story. A Facebook friend posted a link to this on his wall. This video shows that even the most embarrassing situations can be turned into something that will teach everybody a lesson.

Encouragement is one of the best gifts a parent can give to his or her child: it can be done anytime and it’s free.

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3D Ultrasound and Our First Glimpse of Baby Daniel

Perhaps all pregnant women will agree with me when I say that one of the most awaited pregnancy moments is when you get to listen to your baby’s heartbeat for the first time; or better yet, when you get your first glimpse of him while he is still in your tummy.

Looking at Daniel for the first time

Our experience was no different. We rushed to St. Luke’s Medical Center in Quezon City as soon as our obstetrician advised us that we could have pictures of our baby taken through 3D ultrasound. Unfortunately, Daniel was not too cooperative during our first session so we had to go back for another session, and boy, was it worth everything!

The experience was priceless. As soon as we saw the first image, we felt a rush of love for this beautiful being inside my womb. I cannot quite believe that God has just entrusted this little miracle to us. Needless to say, we brought home his 3D ultrasound images, intending to cherish them until we are able to cradle him in our arms.

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Daniel’s 16th Month Milestones | Baby’s 16th Month Milestones

My son turned into a curious 16-month-old four days ago and before I knew it, I was already running after his tiny and agile form across the room. Yes, Daniel is now a full-fledged walker who freely trots in and out of my room, reducing the whole house into his own version of a mulch-less park.

Now, I completely understand my mother when she said that I won’t be able to rest when my son starts to walk. Good thing I still manage to take some [cat] naps–thanks to our yaya who relieves me from my motherly duties a few hours a day. No doubt, with a little help, motherhood has become so much enjoyable when I get to spend time with Daniel and, at the same time, enjoy some “me” time: 3x a week massage, facials, manicure and pedicure, and a dose of reality TV.

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